All I can say is I am really getting old. Suddenly got the yawning spell and realised its been days since I had a good sleep and it will be hectic this coming weekend, also the coming CNY. Cun seem to sleep too early coz either not tired enough, or find it a waste of time when I can do something else like watching youtube (or rarely TV), doing sudoku or just lazing around. Haven't got the mood to do spring cleaning for my room too, never been a tradition for me anyway. Got mood, anytime can do...
Was planning with Web the other about this coming CNY, how bz we gonna be then started to panic coz haven't got any new clothes. Its probably time to dig out clothes bought long ago and never or seldom worn as obviously no time and mood to shop for new ones now. Still going shopping tonite with mum and sis, mainly to bring mum shop for her stuff and who knows, might just get lucky and found something for myself.
Went dinner at Sakae Sushi last nite, as we wanted to avoid all places that serve only Valentine's menu. Most restaurants came up with expensive menus to attract couples and we din want to spend so much and let them earn. We were lucky to get seats just before a long queue was formed behind us and settled dinner within an hour. Was strolling around Marina Square then bumped into one fren while she was in the queue at another restaurant with her boyfriend.
We then found some seats just outside Gain City and sat down to pass time, chat and watched the boring shows on the display TV sets. Web suddenly got abit melancholy and started talking about some worries and problems. Sort of spoil the mood but I guess there are some things we need to face anytime. He was worried that there will be no one to take care of his parents after marriage. To me, I felt that since we will be staying quite nearby so should be ok. What he said is true and not all worries are unfound but I guess he need not worry too much. Even though he has a sis, but she's mentally below her age (due to a fever when she was small) thus not quite able to take care of his parents thus increased his worries.
My sis kept asking me why I need to move so far away but I guess I dun have a choice. I guess there are alot of things my sis still dun understand as she is still young. Being a son, Web has the responsibility to take care of his parents just like my brother, who is living near us (just opposite our block). Given a choice, I would of coz want to be near my parents as well but I cun be so selfish. I guess its fair that sons should stay near parents and if they did, at least we are consoled that they are not unfilial. As for daughters, married out liao bo bian lor...
Thinking, after marriage there will be more worries and problems, so no point thinking too much. As the saying goes "the bridge will straighten when the ship is near"...
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