Wake up to real love!!

Something inspired me to write this blog. Wanted to do it last nite (ard 1am) but obviously was too damn tired. My sis' fren (let's call her YK) broke off with her bf last week, n i jus heard they patched up last nite, on stupid terms. That stupid guy actually wanted YK to wait for him until Jun 06, so that he can play ard (flirt etc, dunno wat else, leave it to ur imagination) and then come back to her again in 4 mths' time. And the worse is YK actually agreed!! Is women in love always so stupid, dumb n silly??? As far as i rem, i m not so silly to this extent. Allowing your bf to ditch u for a couple of mths for him to flirt ard n wait for him to come back to u??? Get a life man...what kind of jerk is this? If such a guy cannot stay faithful to u, n even hv e cheek to quote such terms, GIVE HIM UP!!! He's definitely not worth it. Can u imagine him doing this to u when u get married?? Are u able to stand him being unfaithful?? Love is great but not to this silly stage.

We have feelings, so when we feel sad of coz we will cry. When u finally stopped crying, it will be all over. No point turning back for someone not worth it. Its jus a matter of time u will recover, so y make urself more miserable by prolonging the suffering? I m sure alot of us have been thru this, n we recover n hv a better life now.

I broke off wif my ex in 2003. He initiated it coz he said he prefers to stay single thru his life, n said din wan to burden me. Obviously i was devastated then. Luckily, i have my sis, my frens n my cols who tided me thru e hard times. It wasn't easy coz we had no major problems in our r/s but it still ended so suddenly. It took me a whole 1.5 yrs to recover, which i nv tot i wud at tt point of time. Its not easy, really but its possible to recover. Becoz we hv time to think thru it, we had different advices from people from their point of views, n of coz e support n encouragement from them. Its jus a hurting process, a period whereby u see things more clearly, know what u really wan n u become wiser. Of coz I still hv a phobia of r/s sometimes, but if u can find someone who truly love n care for u, u shld gv it a try. I m glad i did, n found my current beau, Web. He's not perfect but he's definitely better than my previous bfs, who obviously din know how to treasure me.

So y despair, if u do not find love now, u will eventually. At least find someone worth of u, not jus anyone who is almost near to a piece of shit.

So YK, I hope u will wake up to ur senses soon. That guy is definitely not e one for u, coz he did not treasure u in e 1st place. Y waste your youth on him when u cud hv someone better, no matter how long it takes for him to come along.

To my friend Xris, dun worry if love is not at ur doorstep now, its probably worth a long wait for someone better. We cannot conquer loneliness but at least we r proud of ourselves, not to b stupid, dumb n silly becoz of love.

As for my sis, no nid to feel sad, coz maybe YK hv to go thru it then she will wake up one day. All u can do as a fren, is to lend ur ears n shoulders n gv her good advice.

Lastly, a big thx to my colleague who really helped greatly in consoling me, n give me his point of view as a guy, n lend me ears everytime i feel down.

To all in love, treasure each other. To those still finding love, fret not coz love will come knocking soon!!